{"id":4647,"date":"2026-06-09T16:27:11","date_gmt":"2026-06-09T16:27:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erobella.com\/lust\/?p=4647"},"modified":"2026-06-09T16:27:59","modified_gmt":"2026-06-09T16:27:59","slug":"7-things-escorts-want-you-to-know-about-their-clients","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erobella.com\/lust\/en\/7-things-escorts-want-you-to-know-about-their-clients\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Things Escorts Want You to Know About Their Clients"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Spoiler: it’s not what you think.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Most of them just want a cuddle<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The most common request across our survey wasn’t sexual. It was intimacy,  a kiss, a cuddle, someone to sit with. \u201cMen missing intimacy at home<\/em>,\u201d as one escort put it. Another spent an entire booking watching Netflix, ordering food, and listening to a client complain about his ex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. The \u2018dirty old man\u2019 stereotype is wrong<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Multiple escorts described clients who were, frankly, good-looking. \u201cHe looked like an actor. I was genuinely shocked someone like that would book<\/em>.\u201d Clients are often younger, more attractive, and more functional than the cultural shorthand suggests.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Paying does not mean they think they\u2019re attractive to you<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIt always surprises me when a man thinks that.<\/em>\u201d The assumption that payment equals mutual attraction is, apparently, both common and incorrect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. The requests are weirder than you\u2019d expect<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A man who wanted to be pied in the face with squirty cream (he got a deal at Tesco). A client who asked an escort to fold her laundry at her feet while she drank coffee. A man whose only request was \u201cplease leave your socks on<\/em>.\u201d One client asked an escort to marry him. Another wanted to be a dog for exactly one hour.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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5. Some of them have never been shown warmth before<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

One escort kissed a client and he stopped, confused. \u201cHe asked me what is that?<\/em>\u201d She described it as the reaction of someone who had never been shown genuine affection – sometimes they are just very lonely people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. The nervous ones are the most human<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A first-time client arrived with a written plan in his pocket, conversation topics, things to try, a reminder to himself to breathe. Within five minutes he\u2019d forgotten it entirely. They spent half the session laughing. That, escorts say, is more typical than anyone wants to admit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. They\u2019re \u201cactually just nice\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019ve been in this industry a long time. The people are actually nice. You make friendships on the way.\u201d Not every escort said this. But enough of them did that it keeps showing up unprompted,  in a survey specifically designed to surface the harder truths.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Source: Erobella Ask an Escort survey series, two waves, UK escorts, 2026. All quotes from consenting respondents. For full dataset, interview access or comment contact Caitlin Peters, PR Manager, Lust \/ Erobella.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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